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	<title>Comments for Tonya's Blog ~ Helping You Build the Foundation to Your Success</title>
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		<title>Comment on Life By Design&#8217;s Weekly News ~ August 20th by Dr. Sally Witt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Sally Witt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 03:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, the Olympics have been a huge influence on everything.  Great post!  You know that I share your views on so much.

I got a new thing from Ann Rusnak to pass on to 6 friends on their blogs. I would never do it by email, so I don’t know why I am trying it now! Anyway, I put your blog on the 6 that I had to choose. There is a post and a link to your blog from my site. Hope it is ok to do that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, the Olympics have been a huge influence on everything.  Great post!  You know that I share your views on so much.</p>
<p>I got a new thing from Ann Rusnak to pass on to 6 friends on their blogs. I would never do it by email, so I don’t know why I am trying it now! Anyway, I put your blog on the 6 that I had to choose. There is a post and a link to your blog from my site. Hope it is ok to do that!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Our Mental Models by Coach Knockoff Purses</title>
		<link>http://lifebydesignsite.com/blog/our-mental-models#comment-130</link>
		<dc:creator>Coach Knockoff Purses</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 18:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Coach Knockoff Purses...&lt;/strong&gt;

I found your site on technorati and read a few of your other posts. Keep up the good work. I just added your RSS feed to my Google News Reader. Looking forward to reading more from you....</description>
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<p>I found your site on technorati and read a few of your other posts. Keep up the good work. I just added your RSS feed to my Google News Reader. Looking forward to reading more from you&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Guest Post from Susan Daffron by Searching for cat care tip</title>
		<link>http://lifebydesignsite.com/blog/guest-post-from-susan-daffron#comment-78</link>
		<dc:creator>Searching for cat care tip</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 21:44:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Searching for cat care tip...&lt;/strong&gt;

Some folks believe that newborn kittens, just like newborn humans, find comfort and security in the sound of their mothers’ and their siblings’ heartbeats. That the heartbeat, real or simulated, improves their chances for survival. I can’ t help ...</description>
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<p>Some folks believe that newborn kittens, just like newborn humans, find comfort and security in the sound of their mothers’ and their siblings’ heartbeats. That the heartbeat, real or simulated, improves their chances for survival. I can’ t help &#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Great Show on Loving Your Body by First Ourselves</title>
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		<dc:creator>First Ourselves</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 15:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Tonya,

Thank you for the link and your kind words about my interview with Rebecca. I’m grateful for the support, and that you found our discussion helpful.

In sisterhood,

Karly Pitman
First Ourselves</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Tonya,</p>
<p>Thank you for the link and your kind words about my interview with Rebecca. I’m grateful for the support, and that you found our discussion helpful.</p>
<p>In sisterhood,</p>
<p>Karly Pitman<br />
First Ourselves</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Great Show on Loving Your Body by First Ourselves</title>
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		<dc:creator>First Ourselves</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 15:08:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Tonya,

Thank you for the link and your kind words about my interview with Rebecca. I’m grateful for the support, and that you found our discussion helpful.

In sisterhood,

Karly Pitman
First Ourselves

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Tonya,</p>
<p>Thank you for the link and your kind words about my interview with Rebecca. I’m grateful for the support, and that you found our discussion helpful.</p>
<p>In sisterhood,</p>
<p>Karly Pitman<br />
First Ourselves</p>
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		<title>Comment on Our Mental Models by November 8th Journey to Self: Living the &#8220;Super&#8221; Persona &#171; Journey to Self</title>
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		<dc:creator>November 8th Journey to Self: Living the &#8220;Super&#8221; Persona &#171; Journey to Self</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 23:09:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] with your values?I talked about the &#8220;I am&#8221; exersice, you can find the direction to this here.Links mentioned on the Show: Life By Design Mom’s Coffee Break Peggy’s Link: [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] with your values?I talked about the &#8220;I am&#8221; exersice, you can find the direction to this here.Links mentioned on the Show: Life By Design Mom’s Coffee Break Peggy’s Link: [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Women Small Business Month and National Work from Home Week by Teresa Morrow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teresa Morrow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 18:05:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank for spreading the word about my contest!

Sincerely,
Teresa

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank for spreading the word about my contest!</p>
<p>Sincerely,<br />
Teresa</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is it all or nothing for you? by House Cleaning Zone</title>
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		<dc:creator>House Cleaning Zone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 14:09:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really nice site you have here. I’ve been reading for a while but this post made me want to say 2 thumbs up. 

Keep up the great work!

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really nice site you have here. I’ve been reading for a while but this post made me want to say 2 thumbs up. </p>
<p>Keep up the great work!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being Positive in a Negative World TODAY on Journey to Self by Coach Tonya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Coach Tonya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2007 12:45:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is just fabulous Jenn!! Thanks for stopping by and sharing it!

Perspective is the key…any given situation has several ways to looking at it. If you do not look at it with “doom and gloom” and instead keep on your path to creating what you do want in your life, reaffirming it to yourself…it really helps!

With Empowering Regards,

Tonya</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is just fabulous Jenn!! Thanks for stopping by and sharing it!</p>
<p>Perspective is the key…any given situation has several ways to looking at it. If you do not look at it with “doom and gloom” and instead keep on your path to creating what you do want in your life, reaffirming it to yourself…it really helps!</p>
<p>With Empowering Regards,</p>
<p>Tonya</p>
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		<title>Comment on &#8220;No&#8221; Will Set You Free by Teresa Morrow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teresa Morrow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2007 20:36:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tonya,

This is a very valuable lesson and one I think is especially hard for mothers to adapt themselves too. We are born nurturers, however, I think we often forget that doesn’t mean we have to become enablers of others. I know that we mean well in our “helping” efforts however that usually doesn’t help the situation for the other person and we end up more tired and create less time for ourselves.
I have been in this situation several times in my life as well, however, I have learned in the last year, that by saying no and setting boundaries with others allows them to live their life and I can live mine.

Thanks for the great post!

Sincerely,

Teresa

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonya,</p>
<p>This is a very valuable lesson and one I think is especially hard for mothers to adapt themselves too. We are born nurturers, however, I think we often forget that doesn’t mean we have to become enablers of others. I know that we mean well in our “helping” efforts however that usually doesn’t help the situation for the other person and we end up more tired and create less time for ourselves.<br />
I have been in this situation several times in my life as well, however, I have learned in the last year, that by saying no and setting boundaries with others allows them to live their life and I can live mine.</p>
<p>Thanks for the great post!</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Teresa</p>
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